A long time ago
there was a boy. He was smart, talented and handsome. However, he was very
selfish and his temper was so difficult, that nobody wanted to be friends with
him. Often he got angry and said various hurtful things to people around him.
The boy‘s parents
very concerned about his bad temper. They considered what they could do and one
day the father had an idea. He called his son and gave him a hammer and a bag
of nails. The father said: „Every time you get angry, take a nail and drive
into that old fence as hard as you can.”
The fence was very
tough and the hammer was heavy, nevertheless the boy was so furious that during
the very first day he has driven 37 nails.
Day after day, week
after week, the number of nails was gradually decreasing. After some time, the
boy started to understand that holding his temper is easier that driving nails
into the fence.
One day the boy
didn‘t need hammer and nails anymore as he learned to hold his temper
perfectly. So he came to his father and told about his achievement. „Now every
time, when you hold your temper all day long, pull out one nail“.
Much time has
passed. At last the boy could be proud of himself as all the nails were gone.
When he came to his father and told about this, he offered to come and take a
careful look at the fence. „You did a good job, my son, but pay your attention
to the holes that left from the nails. The fence will never be the same. The
same happens when your say hurtful things to people, as your words leave scars
in their hearts like those holes in the fence. Remember, we need to treat
everyone with love and respect, because it doesn't matter, that you say you are
sorry, the scars will not disappear.
Moral: Patience is the key which solves all the problems...
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